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fsm aka female sexual mate selection

1. is a theoretical strategy based on fundamentals
2. whereby to optimize sexual experiences as a male
   1. you must approach every woman you are attracted to; they won't verbally approach you unless they are risk takers (rare) as confirmed by capitalist dating applications; but they will physically be near you
   2. you must propose your traits to these women to have sex; and this proposal is not necessarilly verbal; and most of the traits you "propose" are already visible before you even say a word to the woman
   3. ideally when she has an understanding of every trait
      1. she will then know whether or not she likes you based on her sexual preferences of certain traits
      2. some women who are risk averse will deny you - not because you do not hold the traits she likes but - because you did not display a trait she prefers; so their uncertainty becomes denial
      3. while other women may push for further information (colloquially called 'testing you') and so their uncertainty is not denial, but not yet acceptance
      4. and you basically reduce this factor of 'rejection by uncertainty' by displaying every physical and social trait prior to a sexual proposal; going through the tests; etc; while understanding that once she understands your traits; she either likes your traits or she doesn't;
      5. and thus you take an early rejection as 'no' but not 'never' since early rejection (whereby you haven't displayed all traits) is a matter of determining whether the reason is due to your traits or some other context which you have control over; but if she doesnt like one of your traits; that is full rejection, even if you have not displayed all of your traits
   4. she will have sex with you when she prefers your traits; and then also prefers to have sex with other men based on operational theory
3. whereby the environment must mean
   1. there are no consequences for a man's approach
   2. there are no consequences for a woman's acceptance or denial of this approach
   3. there is no mate competition which restricts the approach of a man to a woman
4. whereby the reality is
   1. men will prevent other men from the access of women
      1. e.g., use force to manage a woman's sexual access and physical availability to other men (aka fighting over a woman)
      2. e.g., use legal systems backed by force by say, ordering a security guard to try to get the approaching man trespassed
      3. e.g., use spiritual systems backed by prestige to say, ensure a man who depends on his community is not able to approach a woman with a husband on the basis that this is a breach of the transaction.
   2. women will shame men
      1. for unsuccessful approaches because this is spam
   3. women will shame women
      1. for accepting men who they would also accept because resource management
5. such that your reality of fsm is tied to
   1. your relation to sexual preference trait trends which increases your chance of acceptance and thus less cost when approaching women
   2. your dominance related
      1. independence from consequences of force of other men
      2. independence from consequences of loss of prestige by other men
   3. which is why certain men say 'assholes' get girls is simply that these men are not governed by rules of force or community and thus can approach more women regardless of their relational status to anyone else
6. and to reiterate
   1. fsm is optimized by increasing the amount of women you approach; because you accept their sexual selection is random chance; as-is their chance of being horny in ovulation when you approach; which matters because this resource is about procreative sex and procreative sex requires ovulation
   2. effectively, "it's a numbers game" and your efforts are always focused around increasing your numbers by
      1. putting yourself around women
         1. and these women should horny spontaneously aka ovulating
      2. eliminating consequences from approaching women
         1. e.g., being able to ignore men who threaten you
         2. e.g., being able to ignore institutions who make you act a certain way for access to the community
   3. and hence is why (where each point is a theory of fsm backed by a scientific study)
      1. you have 'leaders' - who are above the laws (that they are often imposing) and have their soldiers working for them - with the most children on average; because those are the same men who can approach the most women